Most people go deer-in-the-headlights, arguing without addressing the issues they were just presented, yet remain grossly unaware of. Don’t be that person. The people that know what they’re talking about see right through it. If you want to be a good learner, you must first learn to be acutely aware of what you don’t know, when you don’t know it. Remember Socrates. “I am wiser than this man; it is likely that neither of us knows anything worthwhile, but he thinks he knows something when he does not, whereas when I do not know, neither do I think I know.”